Love the quote by President Truman. So true. I’d better keep on reading. http://www.thindifference.com/2015/06/7-books-millennials-can-read-to-rise-above-our-peers/
Category Archives: Life
8 reasons why my wife and I go to church.
A few weeks ago my wife and I were having lunch with friends. During part of the conversation we began to discuss church. Our friends said they were no longer attending their church. One of the main reasons they gave was that the pastor’s sermons all sounded the same. During our ride home my wife and I were processing the conversation. The comment about our friends leaving their church because the pastor’s sermons sounded the same had really bothered us so we started to make a list of all of the reasons we attend the local church we do. Interestingly, none of the reasons we came up with had anything to do with the pastor’s sermons. Here is the list:
1. Its fun. We get to hang out with friends, go camping with teenagers, play games with children, have interesting conversations, drink good coffee, eat doughnuts, go on scavenger hunts, hike state parks, and in general have a great time.
2. We are working with a group of like-minded people on a mission to help heal the world. We help the homeless, encourage discouraged teenagers to see themselves as bright and shining children of God, support ministries to local families to help them overcome the struggles of life, serve meals to friends and strangers, rake leaves for people who can’t do it for themselves, and try to come up with other ways to have a healing impact in our town.
3. We are participating in a movement much bigger than ourselves. With that group of like minded people mentioned in number 2 we see ourselves as part of the the work God is doing to rescue this world from the kingdom of darkness. We are doing this by investing in the lives of children and teenagers so they can hear who they are in Christ, giving the homeless a safe place to stay and hear how much God loves them and wants to change their lives, by praying for one another, and by tangibly supporting each other through the difficulties and challenges in this life.
4. We get to be difference makers. We have had the opportunity to be alongside teenagers and adults while they pray through emotional wounds from their past and see God speak directly into their hearts and heal them from the painful memories.
5. We get to be part of the solution. Its easy to point out the problems. We hang out with a group of people who have decided to participate in the solution.
6. We go to church to be around people who genuinely care about us and how our family is doing. We get to hang out with people who we can share our burdens with and who have our back.
7. We go to church because we get to hang out with people we care deeply about.
8. We get to partner with Jesus and the work he is doing to bring his kingdom to the town we live in and around the world.
[And by the way, our pastor is a great preacher. His sermons have helped us grow tremendously in our faith. That’s an added bonus.]
Dear You Who Doesn’t Want to Do that Hard Thing | A Holy Experience

Thanks Abby Strausbaugh, for sharing this wonderful article by Ann Voskamp. It is beautifully written and presented. Say yes to hard things and holy things. It is the only way to unwrap all that The Father designed you to be.
http://www.aholyexperience.com/2015/01/dear-you-who-doesnt-want-to-do-that-hard-thing/
The importance of being present.
I have always considered myself a multitasker. Lately though, I have had a growing awareness of how this keeps me from being the supportive leader the people in my organization need me to be. In fact, one of the most important things I can offer all of the people in my life is my undivided attention. Turning away from the computer, setting down my tablet or phone, or putting down my notes to look at and really listen to the person who has asked for my attention is essential to a caring and supportive relationship. By focusing my attention I am sending the signal that the person who has asked me a question matters, what they care about is important to me, and that even though I am busy I have time for them. I can think of few more powerful messages a leader could send.
Granted, there are times I do not feel I have a spare moment to listen. If that is the case I try to schedule a time I can listen rather than trying to act like I care while emailing or texting someone else. I want the people in my life to know that they matter.
As leaders, we are always communicating by our actions. Try sending the message that the people in your organization matter enough to set aside the distractions, look them in the eye, and really listen.
God-Given Foes and Faith
I love this short devotional from John Piper. Whether you are involved in for-profit, nonprofit, or faith-based leadership, you likely have someone you work with who challenges you. Piper reminds us that our “opponents” may be part of a much bigger process.
God-Given Foes and Faith http://dsr.gd/12t0zVk
This week with a smile.
Three experiences and realizations this week:
1) I have been amazed at how my Heavenly Father provides. He does things conventional wisdom says wouldn’t happen. He does what he wants, when he wants, and no one can stop him. Rest and wait.
2) Sometimes buying a dozen doughnuts to share with coworkers is called for.
3) I hoard coffee because I am afraid to run out.
Powerful life lessons about how to change the world from the commander of the U.S. Special Operations Command

Remarkable and inspiring advice on how to change the world. From the difference always making your bed can have on your day to singing when you’re up to your neck in mud, Admiral McRaven gives examples of how a person’s approach to life’s daily challenges can change the world.
Most Americans make into the top 20% of income earners…at least briefly.
Photo by Mark Strozier
This article is very counter intuitive to most of the news reports about how poverty is increasing in the U.S. It is really making me think about the forces that drive individual financial circumstances . The story of our national economy is complicated.
Most Americans make into the top 20% of income earners.
The changing American family.
This short video from the Pew Research Center does a great job reporting the facts. As a community mental health center director and family counselor, I see the the unfortunate fallout the facts have on our children.
The cost of childhood trauma

The Ashland County Mental Health and Recovery Board sponsored an important conference highlighting the long term effects of adverse childhood events. I was fortunate to be a participant.
Jerry Strausbaugh, executive director of the Appleseed Community Mental Health Center, said the conference was a substantial benefit and reinforced the need to reach each in-need or at-risk individual with personalized care and understanding.
“We straddle this world of bureaucracy where to come get help means you get a diagnosis and then you fill out a treatment plan and all kinds of things,” Strausbaugh said. “I understand why we have to do those things, but really what we need to do to help people is validate them and help them tell their story, and help them understand that their past doesn’t have to translate into their future.”
Follow this link for the article in our local paper:



